tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post8992874937301303660..comments2023-09-20T06:32:42.884-04:00Comments on the sum of awe: moments like theseThe Working Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10192418516214435966noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-13574520678404271592010-05-24T18:22:29.318-04:002010-05-24T18:22:29.318-04:00You did the right thing. I never felt that assuran...You did the right thing. I never felt that assurance with Jon. We were on-again, off-again, because I couldn't commit to cutting him out completely. Until I had to because the alternative (marrying him) made me feel like my life was coming to an end. If I had settled for him, I never would have met Matt. I know I was lucky to meet Matt so soon after Jon and it doesn't always work out that way, but I'm telling you...it's so worth it, when it does happen. Keep the faith that everything happens for a reason. And trust your instincts...you have good ones! :) Love ya!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869272179050604401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-71509950288228356922010-05-24T17:04:17.732-04:002010-05-24T17:04:17.732-04:00Well, I'm not going to hate her. She didn'...Well, I'm not going to hate her. She didn't really do anything to me. It seems like a waste of energy to hate her.<br /><br />Alcohol won't help me either. It's a depressant and only makes me want to cry about my dead mom when I get like this. So, not good.<br /><br />I think time will help. And probably medication. Also, a therapist. You know, stuff like that.<br /><br />Thanks for your feedback :)<br />wgThe Working Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10192418516214435966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-56670907814259885572010-05-24T11:05:57.906-04:002010-05-24T11:05:57.906-04:00I agree with Amanda's statement of "Even ...I agree with Amanda's statement of "Even if you don't know her, it's okay to not like her." <br /><br />I'm sorry that you're going through such an ordeal, but like everything else, with time, it'll pass. I hope everything works out for you for the better. (just remember to hang in there)<br /><br />Ps. Alcohol (in moderate consumption) can help numb those feelings for a brief period of time. Maybe even help you get a great night sleep! :Dwiki-sanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16680226169542698330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-64732069913697543212010-05-23T19:50:55.412-04:002010-05-23T19:50:55.412-04:00I did the same thing. It just took me forever to r...I did the same thing. It just took me forever to realise I feared being vulnerable, and in fearing it I was making myself it. <br />I understand being empty, lonely and utterly exhausted. <br />It took God giving me a giant kick up the bum, but I got past it, n though lonely days still come, no matter how many people you interact with. Things are better. <br />Good LuckSojournerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14757503319616894668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-73117469156328293402010-05-23T19:18:09.046-04:002010-05-23T19:18:09.046-04:00*hugs**hugs*Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09841602984811179260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-32107962610897898782010-05-23T19:06:33.354-04:002010-05-23T19:06:33.354-04:00it would be totally worth it to finally tell him h...it would be totally worth it to finally tell him how you feel...he was your friend and I am sure you don't want to loose him completely-- he needs to know... I am so sorry you are hurting.Shanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825882418484714630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-728274549965011564.post-8051314871905646352010-05-23T18:30:20.892-04:002010-05-23T18:30:20.892-04:00I understand what you're going through and I&#...I understand what you're going through and I'm sorry it's hurting you. <br /><br />I've heard alcohol helps as does plotting random acts of vengence against the other girl. Even if you don't know her, it's okay to not like her. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com